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Originally Posted by thayer
I never did fully understand the whole porch thing. Maybe because I've only ever lived in major cities on the west coast and some really rural places in New England.
I think I understand the whole neighborly, social concept, but who has time to just sit and spend hours on end doing nothing. I live close to these Jefferson Square homes and everybody there seems to have a busy life, work, tv, hobbies, etc etc. I do sometimes peek over the fences and see some people playing with their kids in the backyard. Call me anti-social, but I like how it's somewhat dead. I'd really rather not have kids running all over the street and neighbors chatting it up all the time and getting into stupid quarrels which inevitably leads to some stupid criminal act. Don't get me wrong, knowing your neighbors and being active in neighborhood actives is great, but do we really need to sit on our stoop every night and stare at passersby while talking about nothing?
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It's a matter of taste, Thayer. I came from the 'burbs where you'd swear no one was living because the street was so dead. I grew up in NYC in a neighborhood where during the summer the neighbors would sit out on their front porches and occasionally migrate to the
stoop to chat with passersby. I really missed the friendliness of my NYC neighborhood when I moved out to Wrong Island and am so glad I finally found that sense of caring and community here on Second Street. Yes, my neighbors are newsie, but not one of them would hesitate to come busting in the door if s/he thought I needed help or throw a party for whatever milestone someone else was celebrating. You want anonymity, move to the burbs. Your neighbors will quickly let you know they could care less unless your lawn is greener than theirs.