You know for some reason, I feel like I read somewhere that: a)Joseph Simone and his family lived at the house, at some point, where the body was found and b) Ms. Simone discarded the headstone because it wasn't the right size or didn't look good enough; or something like that, but I am most likely wrong (as usual!). Now I'm thinking "am I moron" because what ANAME is saying makes complete sense and seems kinda obvious now. I will keep an eye out and post if what I orginally thought was indeed written somewhere, otherwise: CASE CLOSED.....thanks ANAME