That's really funny, I want cupcakes "cake" too it just seems so much more like me. My original weddign idea was so simple: Church wedding, white lilies, coming out of church cupcake display. Invasion of bar with some kind of stamp on hand marker to know who's on my tab.

But, though most of the crowd is just our friends, i still think it's nice for the parents and family to have a little calm time with us.

I made my first red velvet with cream cheese icing cake not long ago and it turned out better than i thought! I'm thinking of maybe even putting some of my own love in the cupcakes ...though i'd rather have them be done by someone else so i don't have to fuss with it all the morning of or day before.