but with regard to the Wildwoods: North Wildwood and the Crest would all be okay for a family vacation. The boardwalk in Wildwood is bigger, louder and probably trashier than OC's boardwalk, but if your kids are older, say 11 and up, they may find the Wildwood boardwalk to be alot more fun...many more adventurous rides and really cool water parks.
Good luck with your choice!